This is from Claudia Roden. It's simple enough to let the flavor of the eggplant come through.
Sweet and Sour Eggplant
Olive oil
1 large Spanish onion, coarsely chopped
1 pound eggplant, partially peeled and cut in 3/4-inch cubes
2 cloves garlic, chopped
1-pound can diced tomatoes
4 tablespoons chopped parsley
3 tablespoons wine vinegar
1 teaspoon sugar
1/2 teaspoon ground red chili
Cover bottom of a large skillet with oil and heat. Saute onion until soft and golden. Add eggplant and cook, stirring, for about five minutes. Then add garlic and cook until colored.
Add remaining ingredients and cook over very low heat for 20 minutes. Serve cold (we had it warm last night and cold today--delicious).
And here's the Sidecar recipe. Russell made these for us.
Sidecar
1 part lemon juice
1 part Cointreau
2 parts cognac
Shake with ice.
And our version:
Poor Man's Sidecar
1 part lemon juice
1 part Triple Sec
2 parts bourbon